Singlehood. Some dread it while others embrace it. Yet singlehood has its advantages as well as its disadvantages. Many would choose to be attached because of the sense of security present. But what about the sensitivity and fear of misunderstandings.
Some couples fight over the smallest of matters and over the most unreasonable things. How do they put up with it? That I can't seem to understand. Well maybe its because I am rather cynical about most stuff and do not like pettiness or whatsoever. Thus I may not be able to tolerate such nonsense. Also, most people like others because they are good-looking whatsoever. However in my eyes, I feel that should a guy like a girl or vice versa it should not only be a physical attraction. Of course, I do like good-looking guys as well, after all I am only human and its a natural deficiency, but I do make it a point to get to know the guy as well. What if there is a clash in character? Yes people will say "well they can break up", but look at it this way, won't it be better for the two of you to start off as friends first at least that way you won't be ending the relationship on bad terms. Not everybody will end such relationships like that on good terms.
Another disadvantage is that some people do not like to keep in contact with their previous girlfriends/boyfriends but don't you enter a relationship hoping to get to know the other party better? If it doesnt work, well better luck next time. Why ignore the other person and pretend you never knew him? That is one thing I find really childish. Whats the point, if that is the case I'd rather stay as friends, that way at least I will not lose the other party's friendship right?
But at the end of the day, relationships have trials. Trials that you will have to overcome together as a couple. This is when you would get to know your partner better. If at the end of the day when you have found out all the good points as well as the bad points of your partner, as well as how you complement each other, and still be able to tolerate the other as well love the other more, Congratulations! I believe that your relationship will work out all the way. And though I may seem very cynical, I believe that there is somebody out there for each and every one of us. And yes, I do believe that love is worth all the trouble. All the best in all your relationships or future relationships.